I know what it is to carry everything and everyone — and still lose myself in the process.

I've held real responsibility for most of my life: raising a daughter largely on my own, leading multi-million dollar projects, teaching, building, showing up for family and community that depended on me. From the outside, it looked like strength. Inside, I was slowly disappearing.

Loss came in waves I didn't get to plan for. People I loved and needed weren't there when I expected them to be. A relationship I had given decades to ended when I least expected it, and for a while I lost more than the relationship — I lost my own sense of worth.

The turning point didn't come from a program or a stage. It came from my daughter. Sitting with her, telling her how lost I felt, she said one sentence that undid me: "The person you are looking to become is you." I had spent so long being everyone's answer that I had forgotten I was allowed to ask myself the question.

I found my way back. Not by abandoning responsibility — I still lead, still teach, still build — but by refusing to let responsibility cost me myself again. That rebuilding is RESET. I built it because I needed it first.

Now, from the other side of my own breakthrough, I do this so it can come easier for someone else. If you're carrying what I once carried — I see you, and I know the way through.

What I Bring

• Licensed professional engineer and mathematics professor

• Led multi-million-dollar organizational projects — I understand leadership and institutional politics from the inside

• Founder of a non-profit that built a school serving underserved children in Africa

• International Impact Award-winning author

Recognition

Internal Impact Award-winning author. See book below.

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